The Ground Rules for Saving Your Marriage
- Establish some ground rules for making negotiations positive and safe: a) Strive to be kind and upbeat throughout your discussion, b) Safety is a priority during your meetings--be kind and avoid anger at all times, c) if you are unable to reach an understanding, agree to reconvene later.
- Identify the issue from the perspective of both parties. Seek to understand your spouse's position, and state it clearly to your partner, before you agree on a solution to your problem.
- Consider all possible solutions and discuss them without discounting the idea of your partner. Talk about all proposed plans and collaborate and communicate without correcting each other.
- Choose a solution that appeals to both of you and work on it!
- All this from Dr. Harley's book, "His Needs, Her Needs"
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