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How to Prepare for Life After Divorce

Most couples filing for divorce are chiefly concerned with the proceedings. Perhaps rightly so—divorce proceedings are complex and time-consuming, even in relatively simple cases with amicable spouses. However, very few couples see a divorce proceeding as an initiation into a whole new life.

At The Harris Law Firm, we want you to be able to not only feel comfortable during divorce proceedings but also be prepared for life after divorce. That is why we have compiled some tips on how you can live your life after marriage.

  • Seek a Support System: Life after divorce can feel strange, if not painful. It is difficult to lose someone you were so close with. One way to cope with this new life is finding a support group. Whether it be family, friends, or a group for divorcees, having someone to talk to can help you move on with your life.
  • Learn to Let Go: This can be hard to do, in order to mentally prepare yourself, you need to let go of the past. It can be difficult to forgive an ex that has deeply hurt you, but in order to find comfort in life after divorce, learn to forgive and let go. It will lift a weight off you.
  • Plan Financially: Another thing to consider after divorce is your financial status. It can be jarring adjusting to a single income, after having two. Alternatively, if you were a stay-at-home spouse, it can be hard to start making your living. Whatever the case is, plan out a budget. Take into account how much you will be earning and what type of lifestyle you can afford and learn to live within those means.
  • Redefine Yourself: After divorce, you go from being part of a couple to just being yourself. Although it might seem silly, learn to be comfortable with yourself. Figure out who you are without a spouse. This can be a time of growth and rebirth. Start thinking about how you want your life to move after divorce.

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Whatever the concerns, The Harris Law Firm has made resources available to newly-divorced individuals who are seeking to establish a “new normal.” From personal support to learning how to handle the holidays with a split family, these articles will empower divorcees to rebuild their lives with poise and grace.

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